#5 I became more human.

I thought I had it all figured out – we’ll be working hard, climb the corporate ladder, go abroad, buy a house, start a family, and do whatever we are passionate about. I saw myself as Mrs. M in the future which was why I held on and kept pushing for that relationship to work….

#4 Show up at work no matter what.

I had days when I just wanted to lay in bed, wrapped in my blanket like a mummy while checking on his Facebook and crying to my heart’s content. I wanted to just disappear, skipped work and do nothing. Sadly, I couldn’t. I needed the money so I could do a lot of activities to…

When God Says NO, Obey!

I was browsing through my blog and rereading old posts when I saw an entry about going and cancelling my trip to Coron a few months back. I was able to buy airplane tickets for a very cheap price and my scheduled leave has been approved. I was supposed to spend a week of vacation…

#3 A mother knows best.

After two weeks of moping around, I flew to my hometown and spent time with my family for three days. But before that, I talked to Mom on the phone about what happened; well, leaving out some information that would make my ex looked like a douche to my mother. I mean, I know I…

#2 Thank God for real friends.

I never realized I had a good support system until this breakup happened. I wasn’t really a very open person. There are only a few people who understand the real me and know what it takes to get me talking about my deepest thoughts and feelings. It would take them a lot of questioning, and…